The secret to great sex in your marriage!

‘’How can a woman enjoy sex?’’  I whispered to the counselor on phone. ‘Please speak louder, I really cannot hear you,’ she said. After turning my head right and left to ensure that no one was listening in, I tried again, this time louder. Such is the way most young women handle sexual issues-shyly.

Miss Olivia, the pioneer of marriage counseling in the catholic church, Kampala Archdiocese, understood the weight of this question and agreed to see me. She has been married for 25 years, and a counselor for 15 years says that people think that to enjoy ‘good morning lung tonic’-a term she coined to refer to sex – is the preserve of men. They are wrong, it should go both ways, she emphasizes.

‘’A man should improvise to see that the woman enjoys sex if all is to be well in the house,’’. A happy marriage creates happy children and a happy home.  Before you start relating intimately, you should have talked about how many children you want, who will buy what in your home, how many times you want sex a week. 

Happy marriages, happy relationships!

Being happy is a desire for every human being. In fact it is a need for human existence. Survival of families, relationships and marriages needs happiness as an ingredient. When happiness is lacking, misery is the immediate counterpart.

Many people have no control over their emotional well-being. They feel ecstatic when good stuff happens and depressed when things go wrong. Their lives are roller coaster rides: sometimes up, sometimes way down.

But what if you could be happy no matter what happens?

You’d stay calm when your car breaks down and your boss shouts at you. You’d stop feeling lonely when there’s no one to talk to on a rainy day. You’d never lose sleep over a relationship that isn’t working out.

If being in command of your emotional state sounds good, take charge of your life with these easy to apply tips.

PROBLEMS OF COHABITING - Relationships and Marriages

PROBLEMS OF COHABITING

Parental disapproval: Despite permissive attitudes in society generally, the older generation still tends to disapprove cohabitation. The women tend to be more concerned about parental disapproval than the men.
Lack of Common Purpose:
 One study found that while college students intend to marry, most do not

‘JUST LIVING TOGETHER’- Relationships and marriage

‘JUST LIVING TOGETHER’
Cohabitation, or ‘Living together’, has become a popular and accepted practice in most countries and cities around the world. In one British study, 8% of the couples admitted to cohabiting before marriage. Such non-traditional family forms are most frequently practiced by the

THE TEST OF LOVE FOR THOSE IN RELATIONSHIPS!

HOW CAN WE KNOW THAT WE ARE IN LOVE

Here are some questions which quickly disclose whether or not one is really in love or whether the relationship is something different. Answer each question truthfully, regardless of what you think is the correct answer or what the other person wants to hear.

1.      YES/NO Do you have many interests that you like to do together?

2.      YES/NO, Do you have a feeling of pride when you compare your friend to any other you have known?

3.      YES/NO, Do you feel you need to apologize for certain things about them?

4.      YES/NO, Do you suffer from a feeling of unrest when away from them?

5.      YES/NO, Have you a strong feeling to please your companion, and are you quite glad to give way on your own preference?