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Showing posts with label COURTSHIP. Show all posts
Showing posts with label COURTSHIP. Show all posts

COURTSHIP A KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE!

Wednesday, July 31, 2013


There should be courtship before marriage. If you don’t do it you may face it rough.  Read today’s article to learn of the risks you should avoid and basic knowledge you need before you marry!
Signs of violence: One of the most pressing problems is violence within the couple or the family. It is common to find high levels of family abuse in all societies, even in the most wealthy and civilized. Below is a list  of violence indicators which already appear in courtship and may be clear precursors to an abusive relationship, examine this  list and check out to see  if they are present in your partner:
  • §  He or she drinks alcohol regularly
  • §  He or she is insensitive to wards animals or children
  • §  He or she pays hurtful or humiliating things to you.
  • §  He or she wants to control what you do, say, buy and so on.
  • §  He or she wants to separate you to separate from your family, friends and work companions.
  • §  He or she has very marked mood swings.
  • §  He or she has behaved violently in the past although always with excuses.
  • §  When you disagree he or she grabs and shakes you.
  • §  When angry he or she throws or break things or bangs his or her fists down on the table.
  • §  He or she blames other people for his or her problems.

Good marriages require ample time for courtship!

Thursday, June 6, 2013


What is courtship?
Courtship is a selection process by which some options are discarded while others are kept in the mind, according to the qualities and circumstances perceived.

Why should there be courtship before marriage?
There are important psychological and biological differences between a man and a woman. In order to maintain a balanced relationship it is useful to be aware of these differences.
Preparation for marriage does not happen by chance but requires conscious, planned effort on the part of both partners.
The temperament of an individual has enormous effect on the relationship between a man and a woman. To know one’s own temperament and that of the loved one is a very contributing factor to success-fulness of a couple.
The work of getting to know each other and getting ready for living together with someone all your life has a serious bearing on courtship and the success of your marriage.

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