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Stability of marriages case studies 1,2,3 and 4

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

In the current situation, many marriages are not that stable, they are at stake, and they are breaking. Let me say they are broken even when people sleep in the same house.
Let’s look at these case studies
 
Case study one
 A workmate was doing internship for his course at a certain place. There he met a beautiful lady and in a short while they talked, agreed, and chose to stay together. Within a few days the lady was pregnant. They hurriedly went to visit the parents to avoid embarrassment. They got a child and for some time they have since lived together. The lady then, worked for an organization which paid her very little money. One time an advert ran in news papers, and the husband read it. He knew some of the members on the committee, so he influenced them to see his wife get the job. Of course she was qualified and she got the job. The job is indeed well paying, the lady really is getting a good pay. The life style has also changed accordingly. Her income is much higher than that of the husband.  While together, the man lost his job and stayed jobless for four months so in this time the lady supported the home. By the time of writing this message, he had gotten another job; actually he had just received his first salary. However, it is the same time that the lady was complaining that this man does not care for her. She has stopped cooking at home, when the husband cooks she pours the food he left.  One day she said `` a kilo of sugar would take us a month if I was only living with my son’’. She has hired motorcyclist to carry her wherever she may want to go and the son but the husband has to foot.
Another day in presence of a visitor she said ``these days it is the men to leave not the women, they can pick out their small chairs, cupboards and clothes’’. This she did after buying a nice set of chairs and a glass table into the house.
What is your view, should financial power break our marriages?
  Case study two
These also are all educated. The man married after constructing a house. His wife still got a well paying job. I surely don’t know what went wrong, but have known that it is not well in the house. They have a house maid at home who cleans up and prepares food for them. When one finds the other on the dining table, he/she waits for him/her to finish up and the other comes. The woman has a car, even when the man leaves the home earlier, and she finds him on the road she bypasses him. But they sleep in the same house.
 
Case study three
These have stayed together for over 14 years. One day the wife found condoms and child spacing pills in the husband’s bag. When she asked him about them, the response he gave was`` you are even lucky, I protect myself’’.
Can arrogance build a home?
 
Case study four
There were two women friends. One married, the other not. The unmarried usually visited the home of this couple. The husband hooked up with the unmarried lady, rented her a house and started having marital affairs with her. She got three children in this man. The man was so tactful that he never slept out of his formal house even a single night. The married lady didn’t know the husband to the friend. One day she visited the friend and this time critically looked at her children. She commented, your children somehow resemble my mine. The other replied that no, how can that be! With time she discovered the truth, their marriage is at stake.
Do you see the trouble?

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