Stability in marriages case studies 6 and 7

Case study six
I met a lady who told me this scenario. Am not being tribalistic but it was so. She got married to a Mugisu man from the Eastern part of Uganda called Mbale. They lived together for some time and got children.

 One time the lady chose to take a bank loan to buy a motorcycle to boost her income. On buying it, the husband took it up, he found a cyclist to ride it and he was the one who collected the money from the cyclist. The man didn’t  present the money to the wife who was paying the bank loan.

 Problems arose from here; the owner was denied ownership, so she had double sorrow. In the end the husband even took it away from the cyclist and chose to be riding on it for his own purposes. He didn’t respect his wife, and surely they separated, their marriage is no more.

Note: Can a woman own anything in your culture? Does she deserve any respect?
Case  study seven
I have a side business besides my formal job of being an educationist. One evening after selling my merchandise on my way back home, I found a serious fight. Two women were fighting over a man.

This happened when the two came to meet the husband each not knowing that the other was there.  In the many words spoken by the onlookers who knew them, I heard that the man was a womanizer; he even had other women elsewhere. In the fight, the man just looked on, until the community members separated the fighters. 

Was he being gentle?
Did he love them equally?
Had you been the one, what would you have done?
By the way in case of a disease do you see how it can easily spread through all of them?