The man didn’t care about her, so she died with the baby in her womb!

Friends running relationships, this time I have brought you a story of a  man who didn’t care when his wife’s delivery time came! The woman surely passed on with the baby in the womb.

I wish to point it out to my readers that carrying a pregnancy puts a woman’s life at risk, so help them.

This happened in a family that I knew very well. These people lived in a village which was about four miles away from the town center where they could find medical help. The story is told that it the man didn’t find it necessary for his wife to go for antenatal care during her pregnancy.

The woman however, tried her way out and she used to go for medical help. When the nine months were full, a few days passed and she started getting the labor pains. She knew that these were signals for delivery. The man was away in the garden, so she sent for him to come and save the situation.

The woman waited, but the man took his time. He was mindless. The labor pains increased in their intensity over time. When he got home the woman asked him for money to get transport means to carry her to the hospital. In response the man said, ‘’you go, you must be having money with you’’.

 Surely the woman didn’t have money but the man insisted. They finally realized the baby was coming and this time the man ran to a local birth attendant. The woman tried to push the baby out but failed. The people around then panicked, trying to call someone who had a vehicle for immediate help. The driver was far away but he came anyway. The woman was placed into the car, but on the way to the hospital her condition worsened and she died.

Her life and the baby perished. The baby was just removed and the two were buried on the same day. The people who attended the funeral were very bitter about this level of negligence the man displayed. The woman had some other young children who she left behind.

This is one man representing so many in the world over. They are careless, and do not value the lives of those in their hands. I write this because I have a feeling that it should stop. Some people die in situations which could have been saved. Life needs to change its course and we need to behave responsibly.

Dear lovers, we cannot express our love in the graves; we do love when we are alive; this is the reason I appeal to you to meet the responsibilities for your actions. Give your spouse appropriate care when they need it most. 

The harmony we display in caring for ourselves and the children in our houses should be optimal. Your house should receive the best you can offer than anyone in the world. Many a people are very good to those outside and are very negligent to those in their doors. 

Think about the success of your marriages and work for it. You surely need to invest time in building strong ties that bind you together as a family. Yes, you have differences but find away to resolve your challenges. No two people can live together without one hurting the other in some way. And again, it doesn’t mean separation in such circumstances. How many times shall we run from challenges? Don’t you know that when we go through challenges and succeed, we become strong!