Men should learn the strength in Women

The strength in women

The women are the mothers of our nation. When they play their right roles in the homes the children that come from those homes are very useful and productive.

Some cultures have appreciated the value in women but still in many cultures they are marginalized. In the bible I have read about the Jewish culture where if they wanted to count people at a function, they would only count men.

Men should stop marginalizing women; because their lives are in the hands of women.

Who is that successful man who has not had a touch of a serious mother! Tell me where he is!

I would like to narrate you some scenarios in this write up to show you the power in women.

A Ugandan army general died in the hands of a woman. The general was major Kazini. He had survived several wars and gun shorts but simply lost his life when he was hit by a woman called Draru with an Iron bar. Imagine, a woman to kill a general!

 In another scenario, there was a youth who grew in a home where his father used to beat his mother. A time came that he chose to marry a young lady for a wife. He had learnt taking alcohol. He used to drink and return home late almost everyday. With his drunkardness he used to get home very late. He demanded his wife to wash his feet and to wait for him as he took his supper in those late hours. On so many occasions he abused, kicked and beat her terribly.

For some time the lady was patient until when she couldn’t hold it anymore. When he was gone as usual, the lady bought ropes and prepared that if he came back and disturbed her peace she would teach him a lesson that he would never forget. Surely even that day the guy came back drunk and started his stupid behaviors. She looked on until he went to bed. While in deep sleep, the lady spread him over the bed and tied him on the four ropes. She beat the man until she was convinced that it was “good’’ enough.

She had already organized her property that after “disciplining’’ him she took off. In the morning the mother to this man did her digging near the house of her son, but she couldn’t see anyone coming out. Time passed by that she got very concerned. She went and called over and over, but no one responded. Finally, she pushed the door to get in. she found her some badly beaten and the wife gone. He was taken to hospital where he spent days on treatment until he recovered.

From the hospital, he stopped taking alcohol and he publicly told his friends that if he married again, he would never, ever beat a woman again all his life. Of course the woman who beat him never came back but she had taught him a lesson in a hard way.

I believe you have seen what women can do wherever you come from. Am not promoting bad behavior in women, but am calling upon men to understand that they should stop underestimating women. The women cook the food we eat and prepare the drinks that we consume. They even lay the beds where we sleep. Our lives are in their hands.

It is true, their muscle is not as strong as men’s to fight us, but their brains are working. Thank God for that good woman who has humbled herself to be with you!  Respect her; acknowledge her presence and have a constructive talk with her all will be well with you.

Men should stop playing on women psychology. They have heads that think. They know what they want.