Commitment to love a very important aspect.

Making and keeping commitments leads to very successful relationships and washes away the tears of unfaithfulness. Are you committed to your lover?
Taking a choice to start a relationship is making a commitment. All of us need to know this so that we avoid making blunders. Real relationships are rooted in the mind; someone puts the other into the heart. As the relationships grow people develop trust in one another until when they decide to take them up.
I have seen people breaking these commitments. Many a time the women have said they gave in the whole of themselves but ended up in disappointment. I don’t want to say that this is done by men only; the women also do it to men.
I would therefore like to invite you to read through the following lines of this write up so that you take care and advice others as they try to travel the journey into relationships.
In relationships people expect to be loved. Love is a courageous act; it isn’t simply a word, it is real action. What the mouth has said, actions must also show.  Be therefore careful to say you love when you are very sure you mean it. Very many people have been disappointed, they hate lies and they have a future to settle for. Wasting their time in fake relationships isn’t any of their desires.
Deaths have happened as a result of poor relationship management. This is bad, it shouldn’t happen. Heart breaking is a very dangerous scenario to those who have gone through it. I don’t want the same to happen to you, your brother/sister, your son/daughter, your friend or relative.
The commitments we make are ourselves and to others and our integrity to those commitments is the essence and clearest manifestation of our proactivity. It is also the essence of our growth. Through our human endowments of self awareness and conscience, we become conscious of our areas of weakness, areas for improvement, areas of talent that could be developed, areas that need to be changed or eliminated from our lives. Then, as we recognize and use our imagination and independent will to act on that awareness- making promises, setting goals, and being true to them, we build the strength of character, the being that makes possible every other positive thing in our lives.
It is here that we find two ways to put ourselves in control of our lives immediately. We can make a promise and keep it. Or we can set a goal and work to achieve it. As we make and keep commitments, even small commitments  we begin to establish an inner integrity that gives us the awareness of self control, and the courage and the strength to accept more of the responsibility for our own lives.
By making and keeping promises to ourselves and others, little by little, our honor becomes greater than our moods.
The power to make and keep commitments to our selves is the essence of developing the basic habits of effectiveness. Knowledge, skill and desire are all within our control. We can work on any one to improve the balance of the three.
As the area of intersection becomes larger we more deeply internalize the principles upon which our habits are based and create the strength of character to move us in a balanced way toward increasing effectiveness in our lives.
From the words above, I wish to request my reader to know it that, whether marital or any other form of relationship, commitment to one another is a very important key in keeping the relationship healthy.
You murder someone when you break a relationship jokingly. It may not hurt you, you who do it but you need to stand in the shoes of the other party, saying that had our situations been reversed, what would I have done.
I shouldn’t forget to warn you to test the commitment of that man/woman you want to get engaged to. If they can’t keep their word in small things, there is much doubt that they will improve. But of course they can, however, rarely. Some of them are married but they suggest to love you also, take a step back a little and think, if they didn’t do it to the first mate, will I be the special one??
Make mature decisions, act maturely, respect each other, don’t take you partner for granted, show love to one another, be there for the other and finally keep your word (keep your commitment). When you do that you will be called a man/woman of unquestionable integrity.