There is a season for every thing in our lovely homes!

Lovers and those getting into relationships should today get to know it that there is a time for everything. This is the essence of my write-up to you my reader. I invite you to peruse through the following lines and paragraphs to draw some lessons.

To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose on earth. There is a time to be born and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to uproot what was planted;

There is a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to breakdown and a time to build up; there is a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance;

A time to throw stones away and a time to gather stones; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;There is a time to gain, and a time to lose; a time to keep and a time to throw away;

There is a time to tear and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;There is a time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace; 

 Time is a very important factor in man’s life. We live on time. Everything is dependent on time. Our desires are fulfilled over time. At one point you were young but now you are aged; yes this is what am saying, time is a governing factor in our lives.

To see day time and the darkness of the night, it is time in control; so the sun, the moon and stars are all controlled by time.

I have seen people panicking because of time; they say am late for work, late for the party, late for lunch, late for duty, late for church, late to build, late to marry, late to graduate etcetera. All this they say, because they look at time.

Time seems to be passing so fast to some people and yet to others it looks to be very slow.

When times are good; when all things seem to be good; when there is no danger; we don’t want such a situation to change. We prefer such Ideal conditions to remain forever and ever. We want them to be permanent.

However, things do not happen that way; there’s killing, breaking down, weeping, mourning,  dying,  uprooting,  losing, tearing,  keeping  silence,  hating etcetera . What these statements simply mean is that in life, there is a time of joy and a time sorrow.

The good news is that when problems come they are not permanent. They may push us even to the walls, to the darkest of the corners but they will end. No situation is permanent. The tempest; the billows; the waves will settle one day. You simply need to give it time; life will get back to normal.

It is common among the people who are just getting into relationships. They think not of any danger in life. But, the fact is, problems always arise and normally destabilize our lives. The good news is they are never permanent.

We have no control of our future, but can try to plan for it. We need to set ourselves to receive any of the two. Lovers should have a plan, they need to be prepared for disasters for they have to come a given time.

They shouldn’t quit because problems have stricken them, but instead to find a way of maneuvering through those challenging situations. Going through a problem requires someone to be by your side. In most cases the most important person to show this tender care should be the one you chose out of the many; your lover.

The success of a marriage is not measured at the good moments people have enjoyed but rather at the challenges you have gone through. When a bad time has come to you, be patient, work on it, you will survive.