IMPORTANT LESSONS YOUNG GIRLS SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GOING WITH MARRIED MEN

 Young girls, be careful with married women, do not play with their husbands. You don’t know where they’ve come from, not even the struggles they passed through to marry!

I wish to share with you real situations that I have practically seen and heard from people living  in my home country.

There was a young lady not married to any known man. However, hearsay had it that she was finding men for herself.
The lady goes to a Christian church. At the church she is fond of hugging men intimately regardless of their marital status. When she sees a male she wears a very broad smile and opens her hands to embrace him.

By the time of writing this article, four women whose husbands were continuously hugged by this lady were only waiting for an opportune time to see her play up with their husbands and then show her fire.
The unfortunate part of this matter is that this girl also threatens the women by sending them mocking phone messages that she doesn’t fear anything.
The women have already ganged up and they promise to beat her up in the public saying that it will be a memorable lesson to her and to any girls who may intend to disorganize people’s homes.
 I have also known about another lady whose name is Rosette. One time she found her husband from a lodge with a certain lady (concubine). It was not so easy at home because of this happening. Anyway even when that happened the man did not stop moving out with his concubine. One day the husband went to church and sat somewhere in the middle of the congregation, the concubine also came in later but happened to sit in a place closer to the where the formal wife was. The concubine had come with a friend to the church and it is told these two somehow mocked the formal wife.  The formal wife moved out of congregation and went to the church store. There in the store, she pick up liquid soap and water and poured them into a basin.

The church elder saw her do it, but he ignored, thinking that she was possibly going to clean somewhere. He however, kept his eyes on her to see what she was going to do. In a few minutes the lady folded her clothes, lifted the basin with its contents and moved towards the main church entrance. The church elder rushed so fast and intercepted before she entered. This time he asked her what her intention was. In response with a lot of anger she said “let me show them, am tired of this disrespect. How can those harlots abuse me from the church?” The elder calmed her down and took away the basin. All that happened when the pastor was at the pulpit preaching his sermon to the congregation.

 Do you realize that the annoyance and anger she had was bringing a disaster? The following was likely to have happened;
·    the preaching in church was going to stop
·    the water was going to spill even to the innocent.
·    the ladies (harlots) would engage in a fight.
·    Serious embarrassment to the all of them.
I don’t know whether she had forethought of the consequences of the decision she made, but she was ready to do it anyway.

Another girl who claimed to have not known that the man she married had another wife was bewitched and the story was broadcast on the radio. It was reported that this girl developed a very bad smell and her labia started elongating to a level that they couldn’t fit into her knickers. The man rejected her due to these problems but still the problems persisted. She had sent a letter to the radio for people to pray for her and to seek forgiveness from the formal wife.

I believe you have seen or heard of such occurrences where you are. You may be shot, burnt with acid, engaged in serious fights or any other problems. Elders help the young girls who want to get married. Let them find single men for safety. What do you think?